Put the Tools Up

     There is a magnetic kid force that pulls kids into the garage when Dad has out his tools.  True to this force, one morning Shea had assumed the position along side his father, Kevin, in the garage.  Knowing that Shea was undoubtedly getting in to the tools, Kevin would periodically say, "Shea, put the tools up." Shea would sometimes shoot a glance his way but continued working.  Growing nervous, again he checked in on his son only to find him with a screwdriver!  This time Kevin stopped working and went to him.  He looked at Shea, trying not to lose his patience and said, "Shea, I said put the tools up."  With a confused facial expression Shea slowly, briefly held the screwdriver up in the air toward the ceiling then innocently went back to the work he had been so intent on doing.
     Efficient communication requires the understanding of both parties involved.  Chances are if we are saying the same things over and over it is not the listener that needs adjusting, but perhaps the speaker.  Situations can be approached in so many ways!  If one approach does not work, keep an open mind. There is a big difference between being heard and being understood.